Grown-ups love figures. When you tell them that you have made a new friend, they never ask you any questions about essential matters. They never say to you, “What does his voice sound like? What games does he love best? Does he collect butterflies?” Instead, they demand: “How old is he? How many brothers has he? How much does he weigh? How much money does his father make?” Only from these figures do they think they have learned anything about him. ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry, The Little Prince, 1943, translated from French
Play Card Games
Almost every “dollar store” sells decks of cards for a buck. And, almost everyone knows how to play card games. Whether it’s “Go Fish”, “Old Maid”, Gin Rummy, or 5 Card Draw Poker. Obviously, you wouldn’t want to teach your child how to become a poker virtuoso, but playing a card game such as “War” or “Go Fish” can help develop your child’s math skills.
Now, you don’t have to have a special deck of cards for games like Go Fish, Old Maid, or War. Any standard deck will do. So, when the kids are awake, you can play those card games that are child oriented, and when they go to bed, you and your friend, or significant other can play a more adult oriented game such as poker or Rummy.
Always have some sort of “prize” on hand if you plan on having a family Go Fish tournament. And be sure that everyone is a winner with the prizes going down in vaule or size. This is especially important for younger children so that no one every feels as if they are a “loser”. And, no one likes to feel that way, even older children. Although they might never admit it 😉